An open letter to my twitter followers

Dear followers,

I’ve been asking myself a simple question these last days: why do you follow me? And to an extent, why do you follow anyone?

I guess the best way to tackle this is by first answering my own question. I’m following designers, Art Directors, Creative Directors, Agile developers, a couple of friends. I’m following them because they tweet about subjects or trends that interest me, and that I may have missed because I was looking the other way. I’m following them because they sometimes post links to useful content or applications that I may not know about and may improve my online experience or workflow. That’s the main reason, and perhaps the only one.

Some of the people I follow have a witty style that often makes me smile, even laugh. I enjoy these careless moments, they reconcile me with humanity by proving that some things in life, albeit little, can indeed be free.

What about you guys? I’m a Creative director, a decent photographer, an Agile enthusiast, an occasional blogger, a constant traveler. I’m assuming you knew some of this already when you pressed that Follow button, either because you knew me, or because I tweeted something that led you to this conclusion. What are you interested in reading about? How can we all better interact with each other?

I guess another way of saying this is: after seeing what the people I follow can bring me, I am wondering what I can bring you all. I would like to improve our relationship and overall communication, so help me help you.

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Langkawi… and the “Sun Cafe” heaven

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Langkawi, that’s where we finished reading the book written by Elizabeth Gilbert, “eat pray love”, and it was a perfect place for it. A quiet, full of contemplation yet sunny and loving little paradise.

As much as we enjoy wandering about its endless beaches, discovering its wild sides, intentionally or not, it seemed not meant for our souls to linger on its grounds for too long.

During our two-week  stay (which was never planned, shortly after arrival, I got sick) we stayed in the Tropical Resort, in a simple, quiet, clean bungalow rented by Layla. Extremely lovely German woman, full of stories to tell if you only spend a little time in her company.

Within the first few days, we rented a scooter to discover our own ways around the island. We had never driven one before, and Langkawi seemed like the perfect place to try it out. Of course, knowing us and our eagerness for new adventures, we rented our little black friend one late afternoon. Despite that fact, we decided to have our first go straight away. We chose one of the farther destinations, which was so worth seeing. It was one of the most beautiful beaches on the island as we discovered later. While being ever so excited of the new unknown land, we didn’t calculate our return well enough to avoid travelling by night. AND shortly after leaving the beach, the night welcomed us with open arms. In Langkawi there are more roads and bigger traffic than we anticipated, which led us to taking a wrong turn, and we got lost.

I have to admit that driving in the darkness trough the jungle was not my favorite thing to do, not mentioning that I discovered why I was never really keen on renting/buying a scooter or motorbike in the first place. I’m NOT a scooter person! I’m a horse person, a car person but definitely NOT a two-wheeler person. Despite all, there I was on the scooter, at night, in the jungle.

Throughout our island adventure, it appeared to me that I had to face many of my fears, and accept them for what they were. I had to face an unknown part of myself and accept its existence, which was not easy.  However, I’m glad that it happened there and then. I’m so glad that I got to know myself better, and that I was ready for whatever had to reveal itself.

My hubby was so brave in all of that, he was the driver after all and he kept his cool. It was amazing how peaceful he was while we were crossing trough the darkness of the jungle surrounded by the wild and unknown. He took us home… wherever that was :) .

It was our first but not last scooter adventure, the next ones were much more welcome and confident. After facing the jungle at night we were invincible, nothing else was as terrifying. We were grateful and happy to be grateful. No other excursion could match the first experience. That night we were so happy to come back safe and sound.

Within the short however at the same time long stay we experienced many extremes. The Sun Cafe was one of the rare perfections one rarely encounters in life. That was our retreat heaven after whatever or however unfortunate moments. The food in that beautiful and comforting place is just amazing. The cook has a unique gift which we enjoyed in moments of need. That was our getaway, our perfect cave filled with tastes out of this world. Every time I tried a dish my senses were exploding!… I felt like the rat in Ratatouille… I saw rainbows and colors before my eyes, my happiest memories seemed never have left me. Oh GOD! I rarely praise food … but this you just must try!!!

<a href=”http://www.flickr.com/photos/m_sunshine/5332963802/” title=”eat…pray…love… by Marta Hurtado, on Flickr”><img src=”http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5245/5332963802_da38f9e5fe.jpg” width=”500″ height=”280″ alt=”eat…pray…love…” /></a>
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Biorhythms

Peace
There it is, this smile in my heart when I hear the muezzin’s call to prayer.

I like the idea of praising the divine at definite times, giving it priority over mundane tasks. It also gives a certain pace to the day that is certainly enjoyable. With little difference in daylight from sunrise to sunset, the songs of gratitude become the social divider of the day, same as other cultures rely on clocktower chimes or a set amount of meals.

Let us consider these rhythms for a moment. It appears to me that more divisions excite the day, and less divisions relax it. Yet, the same convention can have different meanings.

A dynamic pace like the hour (60 minutes!) compels us to keep a solid track of time. Checking often how much time we spend on any given task forces us to decide if we shall give it more time, or discard it for another. This is very energizing, fostering variety and creativity. However, it also comes with certain expectations that, when not met, put us down with boredom, stress, or worse, burn out.

Conversely, a slow tempo stretches time to a point where it matters less, allowing us to contemplate our surroundings, even to meditate if we are so inclined. When used properly, this is a tremendous concept! Giving more attention to detail, one can focus on a task to the point of perfection. Abuse it, though, and you end up with a conservative mindset where change is frowned upon, stalling activity to the ridicule point of laziness.

Nations as a whole, and social groups in particular choose a convention, then decide how to interpret it. This gives rise to such examples as a New York minute, Italian dolce farniente or Hispanic mañana mañana… The problem is, we as individuals are tied up in this mess, so that it becomes necessary – no, vital – to find balance between these rhythms in order to attain a harmonious life.

<a href=”http://www.flickr.com/photos/hiddenson/190149230/” title=”Peace by Hector Hurtado, on Flickr”><img src=”http://farm1.static.flickr.com/57/190149230_be944809cb_z.jpg?zz=1″ width=”640″ height=”319″ alt=”Peace” /></a>
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